Facing an unexpected pregnancy can be overwhelming, and choosing what to do next is not an easy task. Many women consider their options of adoption vs abortion as they decide their next steps in Louisiana. It is important to understand both options and what they mean for you and your future. While abortion is illegal in Louisiana, meaning you’d need to travel out of state to access those services, adoption presents a legal, supportive, and empowering alternative within the state.
At St. Elizabeth Foundation, we provide support, counseling, and financial assistance to help you navigate this decision. Below are key reasons why many women choose adoption when considering their options.
What Is Adoption?
Adoption is when a birth mother voluntarily places her child with an adoptive family to provide them with a stable, loving home.
At St. Elizabeth Foundation, the process supports birth mothers emotionally, financially, and legally — ensuring they feel confident and empowered about their decision.
Why Consider Adoption Over Traveling for Abortion?
1. It’s a Legal Choice Within Louisiana
Since abortion is not permitted in Louisiana, pursuing that option would require traveling out of state. This involves additional time, money, and planning. Adoption, however, provides a local, legal solution with support systems ready to help you every step of the way.
2. Financial Concerns
An unexpected pregnancy often brings significant financial challenges. According to the USDA, raising a child costs over $233,000 for a middle-income family. This number can feel overwhelming, and the expense grows even larger for single parents. While having a child can be a fulfilling experience, it’s not always financially possible — especially for women already facing financial strain.
Abortion, while an option, also comes with its own set of costs. The procedure itself can range from a few hundred to over $1,000.
Additionally, in states where abortion is restricted or outlawed, such as Louisiana, women may have to pay for travel, accommodation, and lost wages — expenses that can quickly add up on top of the procedure costs.
Adoption, however, is a path that eliminates these financial pressures. It is entirely free for birth mothers, and St. Elizabeth Foundation goes a step further by offering comprehensive financial support. This includes covering your medical bills, living expenses, and legal fees throughout pregnancy. We aim to ensure you can focus entirely on making the best decision for yourself and your child without the added stress of financial strain.
If you’re exploring options and concerned about the costs of an unplanned pregnancy, adoption through St. Elizabeth Foundation provides a practical and supportive solution. Our financial assistance and care make the process as stress-free as possible, allowing you to make choices with confidence and peace of mind.
3. Empowering Your Future Goals
What is your vision for your future? It is perfectly fine if parenthood is not one of the stepping stones in the goals you have set for yourself. But what happens if you experience an unplanned pregnancy along the way?
This may lead you to choose between adoption and abortion. Just as you have planned for your long-term achievements, we encourage you to consider the success your baby could achieve as well.
By placing your child for adoption, not only do you have the opportunity to continue pursuing your goals, but your baby can also grow and thrive with their adoptive family. Adoption gives you the power to pursue your professional and educational dreams. By choosing adoption, you can give your baby the opportunity to grow and achieve their goals, too.
4. A Loving Future for Your Child
The choice of adoption vs abortion can be a difficult decision. An expectant mother may not have the means to financially support a child. Or they may be unable to provide them with the stability they need. Choosing adoption may require sacrificing your desire to raise your child to give them better opportunities.
At St. Elizabeth Foundation, we know how big this decision is, and we are here to support you as you pursue a loving future for your baby. Know that choosing adoption does not take away your place in your child’s future!
Our adoption agency specializes in open adoptions, which allow birth mothers to stay in contact with their baby and the adoptive family. We support you as you find the right home to place your baby and help build the bridge between you and your child. With this decision, your baby can experience both your love and that of their adoptive parents. If you would like to discuss open adoption, our experts can help you understand the details and begin the adoption process.
5. Support Every Step of the Way
Unlike traveling for abortion, where you may feel isolated or unsupported, adoption through St. Elizabeth offers a network of professionals who genuinely care.
From free counseling to creating your adoption plan, we prioritize your well-being throughout the process. After placement, St. Elizabeth Foundation also provides post-adoption counseling to help you through the emotional aspects of this decision.
6. You Control the Adoption Process
With adoption, you’re in control of the process — you decide whether to pursue an open, semi-open, or closed adoption. You choose the family, the level of contact, and the future you want to build for yourself and your baby.
How Adoptions Work at St. Elizabeth Foundation
If you’re unsure how to get started, here’s a step-by-step look at how adoption works at St. Elizabeth Foundation:
- Reach Out: Contact us by phone, text, or email to begin a conversation.
- Get Counseling: Meet with a counselor to explore your choices. We’re here to listen, not judge.
- Choose a Family: Select the adoptive family that feels right for your baby.
- Get Pregnancy Assistance: Receive financial aid to cover medical, legal, and living expenses during your pregnancy.
- Build Your Plan: Work with our experienced team to plan the details of your open, semi-open, or closed adoption.
Adoption FAQs
Here are answers to some common questions about adoption:
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Will my baby go into foster care if I choose adoption?
No, working with us means you have complete control over selecting the adoptive family. Your baby won’t enter the foster care system; they will go directly to a loving home.
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Can I choose the adoptive family?
Yes! You can review family profiles and decide who will adopt your baby.
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Will I regret my decision?
Adoption is a deeply personal choice. St. Elizabeth Foundation provides counseling and emotional support to help you through this process and be confident in your decision.
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Can I stay in touch with my child?
With open or semi-open adoption, you can maintain contact through letters, emails, or even in-person visits, depending on your preference.
Still, Wondering if Adoption Is the Right Choice?
Knowing whether adoption or traveling for abortion aligns with your situation can be difficult. That’s why having someone experienced to talk to matters. At St. Elizabeth Foundation, our compassionate team is here to guide you through your options with care and understanding.
Call us today at 225-769-8888 or contact us online to learn more about adoption and the support we offer.
Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as legal advice.